Finally you need to have the belief that you can do it, and this will stem from your need to lose weight. There is nothing that you cannot do and there is no one who is special. If they can do it then you can do it too. This belief will only be reinforced by your continual struggle to change things. One good way is to make innovations in the process of weight loss instead of getting stuck in the rut; the important thing is to have fun with what you are doing. The moment you make this a boring routine you would want to break free very easily. Breaking free is not an option for you. You will simply be glad to know that the answer to how to reduce weight definitely lies with you and your mind.
"Only doing abdominal-focused workouts, like crunches, won’t help you banish the bulge. Belly fat is simply where your body stores energy, so you need to take a whole-body approach to tackle it. HIIT training (high intensity interval training) is a great way to burn fat and get your heart rate up. Squats, burpees and treadmill sprints are all examples to try." https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eXyOlGTT9QE
But in today's unenlightened "believe everything you hear" age this most effective and proven approach, for some strange reason, does not seem to attract much interest. This is no more obvious when one witnesses the "technological" revolution that is happening within the fitness industry, where a newer even more ridiculous gadget compared to the one that preceded it promises to build you the body of your dreams, with little effort on your part, "in 30 days or your money back"; where a machine that does most of the work for you is touted as a suitable replacement for actually applying a modicum of effort. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mDHGaU_jGrQ