Finally you need to have the belief that you can do it, and this will stem from your need to lose weight. There is nothing that you cannot do and there is no one who is special. If they can do it then you can do it too. This belief will only be reinforced by your continual struggle to change things. One good way is to make innovations in the process of weight loss instead of getting stuck in the rut; the important thing is to have fun with what you are doing. The moment you make this a boring routine you would want to break free very easily. Breaking free is not an option for you. You will simply be glad to know that the answer to how to reduce weight definitely lies with you and your mind.